ODP Tryouts: Thoughts & Hints

Over the years and just recently I have been asked about ODP. The major question has been, "is this going to be something that makes my child just realize that she is not good enough again?" It is a common concern, as tryouts can be overwhelming on the mental side of a child. I find myself answering it in two ways: as a passionate soccer coach or as a concerned friend.

As a coach, I am a strong believer that the more time you spend on the ball, the more time you train/compete with strong players the better a player s chances are to improve their abilities as a soccer player. I believe the tryout experience provides a competitive atmosphere that is incomparable because of the level of competition and the pressure to perform at the highest level at all times. Again, as a coach, I think every player should be put in these type of situations where they have to perform to be rewarded.

As a concerned friend, I strongly suggest that the parents take on a huge role of explaining that making the ODP team is not the end all be all of their soccer career. I suggest to the parents to explain to their kids that they are there to do their best and see if they are recognized or not. They are also there to get a glimpse of what they are up against. Hopefully we as adults can steer our children in a direction that they will benefit from the experience because they were prepared properly. It is our job as adults to expect these children to go give it their best but explain that this is not the end of their soccer career if they do not make the ODP pool.

There is great pride in being invited to be part of ODP as a player. This is because there are only a select few that make it in to their age groups player pool. Players that are accepted in to the ODP pool should be proud of what they have worked hard for. Those that do not make the ODP pool should take the tryouts as an opportunity to self evaluate themselves. Hopefully this self evaluation is a positive one, as it should be an opportunity to have their eyes open to what they are capable of. Many players might attend, see the competition and want to quit after they see what they are lacking.

I strongly encourage all players that are psychologically mature enough and mentally prepared to attend all of the ODP tryouts. On the other side, if the child is not mentally mature enough to handle this highly competitive atmosphere I hope that we as adults will advise against the tryouts. If we believe that it is going to be a positive experience that increases their level of passion for the game then please attend, otherwise...there is a Real Salt Lake Match to attend!

Here are some articles to read regarding ODP tryouts:
How can I enhance my chances of being selected for ODP or a club team or a school team?
What it takes to be successful in the US Youth Soccer Olympic Development Program
Keys To A Successful (ODP) Tryout
How Coaches Assess PlayersTalent and Potential

Infinity SC 96 Girls Premier Return From Vegas With Gold

The Infinity SC 96 Girls Premier team traveled to Las Vegas on the weekend of October 24-26 to play in the 2008 Mayor’s Cup International Tournament. Competing in the Silver Adidas bracket, the team went undefeated in four games to claim the championship trophy. Down a goal in the first game against Colorado United White, the girls struck back almost immediately, tying the game before halftime and pulling ahead to win 3-2. The next game, against Nevada FC Heat, was a 1-0 nail-biter; the semi-final against Illinois River Forest Rapids resulted in a more comfortable 3-0 finish. The Infinity team then met Colorado Storm in the championship game. Infinity scored in the first half, but Storm answered in the second: the game went to a penalty shootout with Infinity prevailing. Congratulations to the players and coaches on a job well done!

gotsoccer.com recognizes Infinity SC

gotsoccer.com is recognized as the official ranking program for youth soccer in America. This web site allows players, coaches and parents to follow their teams at a national level. Briefly, gotsoccer.com has created a system that ranks tournaments. Winning, placing or showing in a tournament gives teams points and as the year moves on points are accumulated and teams are ranked. For more detailed information click HERE.

Current Infinity Rankings on gotsoccer.com can be viewed by clicking the team you wish to view:
(28th)U12 Girls Premier
(687th) U13 Girls Premier

I Bothered Sam Snow & He Replied

I recently sent this email to Sam Snow, the USYSA Director of Coaching.

My email to Coach Snow:

Coach Snow,

I hate to bother you, as i am sure you are a very busy person. I have a brief favor to ask.

In our community we are having friendly debates/discussions on the pro's and con's of playing indoor soccer and more specifically using the walls or not. This has been a topic for discussion in many of the areas I have been in my coaching career. I was hoping you could help me out with this topic by locating a previously written article(s) about the topic or have one of the "higher ups" use this topic in one of their blogs. Having US youth make a statement or share their opinions is very beneficial. Any information or thoughts that you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you,

Jeff Ginn
Infinity Soccer

Coach Snow's Reply:

Hi Jeff,

This seems like a healthy debate for a club to have. There may be articles written specifically on the topic but I do not have anything along this line on hand. However the general consensus of the state Technical Directors is that for development purposes the Futsal version is preferred over the indoor soccer version played inside a hockey rink using the walls. Yet if no other soccer playing option is available in some climates during inclement weather then indoor soccer using the walls is better than not being able to play at all, perhaps for several months in some locales. Below is a the section on indoor soccer from the Player Development Model being written by US Youth Soccer. The full document will be made public at the 2009 US Youth Soccer adidas Workshop & Coaches Convention in San Jose next March. The portion reprinted below is from the first draft, so revisions may or may not be made.

Indoor Soccer – Futsal – Beach Soccer

One of the beauties of soccer is that the game can be played anywhere the ball can roll. Indeed playing in a variety of conditions helps to develop more well-rounded players. So a mix of outdoor and indoor soccer along with some variety in the type of playing surface, size of the field and type of ball used will have a positive impact on ball skills and clever play.

Soccer on the beach is not only great fun but certainly impacts the players’ skills and physical fitness. Players are more likely here to experiment with more acrobatic skills too.

At times the weather conditions dictate that soccer go indoors for some time. Coaches must take this fact into consideration in the curriculum for player development for the club. You could play indoor soccer inside a hockey rink type playing area using the boards or Futsal. Some indoor facilities are large enough that fields are set up and may allow even up to 11-a-side matches. All of these options keep players active in the game. The same basic skills, tactics and knowledge of the game as the 11 vs. 11 outdoor game occur indoors. Yet Futsal may offer the best compliment to player development. One of the benefits of this version of soccer is that it can be played indoors or outside, on a dedicated Futsal court or tennis court or basketball court, so the options of where to play are better. Young players exposed to playing Futsal show a greater comfort on the ball along with more intelligent movement off the ball.

The priority in Futsal is to motivate players in an environment that is conducive to learning. The more pleasure kids derive from their participation, the more they wish to play and practice on their own. While their instinct to play is natural, their affection and appreciation for soccer must be cultivated in a soccer rich environment. Futsal is the foundation to such goals because it: [i]

* Allows players to frequently touch the one "toy" on the field, namely, the ball. In a statistical study comparing Futsal to indoor arena soccer with walls, players touch the ball 210% more often.

* Presents many opportunities to score goals and score goals often. With limited space, an out of bounds and constant opponent pressure, improved ball skills are required.

* Encourages regaining possession of the ball as a productive, fun and rewarding part of the game {defending}.

* Maximizes active participation and minimizes inactivity and boredom. Action is continuous so players are forced to keep on playing instead of stopping and watching.

* Provides a well organized playing environment with improvised fields. Without a wall as a crutch, players must make supporting runs when their teammates have the ball.

* Reflects the appropriate role of the coach as a Facilitator. With all the basic options of the outdoor game in non-stop action mode, players' understanding of the game is enhanced.

* Players enjoy the challenge of playing a fast-paced-fun-skill-oriented game that tests their abilities. Allows the game to be the teacher!The

Sam Snow
Director of Coaching
US Youth Soccer

Futsal Video:

A Good Coach and Manager

Infinity Soccer holds monthly coaches meetings. In these meetings the coaches have an opportunity to share their experiences with their team(s) and give us an update on how they are doing. Another part of the meeting allows one of the three directors to give a workshop on a coaching topic. This month Infinity's Director of Operations, Robson Chaves, did a brief workshop based on the article titled, A GOOD COACH AND MANAGER. As Robson shared the document he provided some thoughts and ideas. having read the article a number of times i was excited to hear what Robson was going to share. I was very pleased with the information and would like to point out that if you ever attend a match that Robson is coaching, you will see how involved the parents are with pregame set up, medical attention, half time nourishment and post game take down. Robson has developed an environment that allows him to focus on coaching and for his players to focus on playing.

I believe that parental involvement is something we as parents and coaches do not promote enough. We as coaches feel like we have to do everything and are afraid to ask people to help.

I have recently become a big fan of delegating. Not only does it allow me to focus on the players needs more, but it also requires the parents to take ownership in the team and feel needed. A huge bonus is that when the parents have to be on time to set up or help out, the player(s) are on time.

I hope that you will all read the article and continue to develop in to a better coach, manager and/or parent.

Remember, game day is about playing and performing the things that were taught in training the week before. Let the kids play and allow the game to teach.

Click here to view the article, A GOOD COACH AND MANAGER.

Welcoming The Winter With A Reminder Of Philosophy

Infinity parents & players,

As we approach tournaments and indoor play and indoor training, I want to remind coaches and parents about the coaching philosophy that we are trying to follow. I encourage parents and coaches to stay active on the USYSA Bolg Site and enjoy the fast paced play found during our winter season.

BLOGS
Coaching education with Sam Snow
Focusing on underserved communities and youth soccer with John Thomas
Focusing on event planning with Michelle Martin
Focusing on the parent's perspective and then some with Susan Boyd

-Ginn

An article found on Sam Snow's Blog

Philosophy of Coaching

"Once they cross that line, it's their game. It's not about us as coaches; it's about them being able to make decisions."
Jay Hoffman

As a coach, you have much to prepare for each season. Of course, you are excited and eager about meeting the players and getting into the matches. You most likely have planned what you are going to do and believe that you are ready. But are you truly ready? Have you thought about the why's and how's of everything you will do as a coach? It is important as you get started in coaching to develop a philosophy. For that matter, even experienced coaches may want to re-evaluate their philosophy.

Some coaches do not believe in the value of developing a coaching philosophy. They do not realize how a philosophy can have an impact on their daily coaching procedures and strategies. However, a coach's philosophy is actually a very practical matter. Most of our basic philosophy comes from our former coaches. This is a natural start because it is the approach with which we are most familiar and comfortable. It is also reasonable to assume that the philosophy of a person's everyday life, thinking and actions would be applied when it comes to coaching. How many coaches would stick to principles of fair play rather than win the game? There may be a gap between what a coach thinks is the right thing to do in daily life and the action he or she takes on the field.

In your effort to form or analyze your own philosophy of coaching, first know what a coach is. A coach can be many things to many different people. A coach is a mentor, a teacher, a role model and sometimes a friend. Most of all, a coach must be positive. A positive coach has the following traits:

Puts players first
Develops character and skills
Sets realistic goals
Creates a partnership with the players
Treasures the game
Your approach should be educationally sound and appropriate for your players
Your philosophy must be ethical
Your coaching philosophy should be compatible with your personality
Fair Play should be a top priority in your philosophy

Coaching is much more than just following a set of principles or having a well-established program. Coaching is interaction in young people's lives. The player who comes onto the field is a student, a family member and a friend to someone. He or she is the same person in all areas of life- he or she has the same personality, ideals, flaws and struggles. It is the responsibility of the coach to help your players make right and mature decisions in all areas of their lives. You must help them develop character, discipline, self-motivation, self-worth and an excitement for life. To achieve these objectives, the coach must raise the standards that the players and others around them have set. Then you must help them reach those standards by developing appropriate relationships with them based on respect, caring and character. When character development is the foundation for your program, players will get the most out of their soccer experience. And when that happens, you will also get the most out of your players, for this makes champions.

The most successful coaches are not necessarily the ones who win the most games. Coaches who have successful experiences focus on team cohesion. The desire to see the players learn and improve their skill is the key to effective coaching. Commit yourself to using all of your knowledge, abilities and resources to make each player on the team successful. Your focus is to promote an atmosphere of teamwork, mutual respect and commitment. By achieving this we will be successful and we will also win.

Infinity SC '99 Boys Premier team completes undefeated season

Infinity SC '99 Boys Premier team finished up its District 7 soccer season. The boys were very successful as evidenced by their undefeated season. The team worked hard and had a good time learning the importance of unselfish soccer. They learned how to play as a team and improved their own individual skills as well. The team was able to score 59 goals with only 10 goals scored against them. They also had 4 shutouts. This shows that their offense was amazing as well as their outstanding defense. Ten out of eleven boys were able to score and all of the boys had multiple assists. Coach Kelly Knowles and assistant coach Kasey Erickson were very pleased with the growth of their team and the positive outcome of the season. The team has learned that not only is it fun to win but it’s also fun to watch the growth of each teammate. Members of the team include: Luke White, Kyler Erickson, Cole Atwood, Colton Lamb, Erik Rickenbach, Larry Hernandez, Kohner Knowles, Raynger Keckler, Brodie Martin, Noah Johnston, and Nathan Merrill. The team is looking forward to their next venture of indoor soccer.

Why They Stop

Last month we asked you, "why do you think kids stop playing soccer?" in our poll of the month. The results can be found below in the article titled, "Why They Stop." The article can also be found on the US Youth Soccer Association Web Site.

Why They Stop
August 28, 2008

By Vince Ganzberg, Director of Education for Indiana Youth Soccer, proud member of US Youth Soccer

"Mom and Dad, I don't want to play anymore!"

After investing the time and money into any sport, this is the last thing a parent wants to hear, but it happens.

Frequently.

Children quitting organized sports occurs more often than one might think. Research has shown that approximately 70-75% of children will quit playing a sport by the age of 14. Why do they want to stop? To answer that question let's look at why they start or why parents put their children into a sport in the first place.

1. Competence (learning and improving)

2. Affiliation (Being a part of something like a team or a club)

3. Fitness (agility, balance, coordination, and physical health)

4. Fun (This is the overwhelming reason why children play sports)

Notice that "winning" is not one of the reasons.

When children leave a game, they want to know two things: 1) When do we play again? 2) Where is the snack? Children are not as concerned about winning as adults may think. Children all want to compete, but they each have their own interpretation of competitiveness. For most, if one team is red and the other is blue then "game on." Children strive to do their best when they step into "competition." They also want competitive matches. Remember when you were a child playing in the backyard and the game was too lopsided? What did you do? I remember stopping those games to start a new one with different teams or balance the game out. I think many of us forget what emotions we went through growing up as a child and how we viewed competition.

Let's get into why they stop. Research says children stop playing sports for a variety of reasons. Six of the seven primary reasons are "ADULT CONTROLLED" behaviors. Can you guess which one isn't?

• Lack of Playing Time

• Overemphasis on Winning

• Other Activities are more interesting

• Lack of Fun

• Coaching/Adult Behaviors

• Dissatisfaction with Performance

• Lack of Social Support

If you guessed "Other activities are more interesting" then you are correct! Give yourself a pat on the back. There are times when a child just finds something new that they really like. The rest of the reasons are adult controlled behaviors. When adult controlled behaviors are forcing children out of a sport, adults are putting themselves before the needs and development of children.

Lack of Playing Time (27% of Infinity Soccer voted for this as the reason)

This is an adult controlled behavior due to the coaches and parents wanting to "win" the game. Do players want to win? Absolutely! They all strive to do their very best to win. Research has also shown that children today would rather play than sit the bench for a winning team. Allow your players to play in the game for their own sake. As a coach you need to see their "soul" on the field and allow them to get into the game so they can get better. Not putting children into a game is like not allowing them to take a test in school. There is nothing wrong with having some players earning more time, but all players should be given a minimum time to play.

Overemphasis on Winning (18% of Infinity Soccer voted for this as the reason)

"Winning isn't everything, it is the only thing". That is the famous Vince Lombardi quote which was also misquoted. He actually stated "The will to win isn't anything, it is the only thing". So many coaches feel as though their whole self-worth is out there on the field, and if they don't win as coaches, then "they" not the children are a failure.

The same goes for adults on the sidelines. A recently statistic showed that 25% of coaches quit due to adult expectations with regard to outcome. The late Bill Walsh stated that "Twenty percent of every game is by chance." In the 1980 winter Olympics, the Russian hockey team would have probably beaten us 9 out of 10 times but that day, it was America's day to win.

As a coach or parent, you can't control the outcome. If it is the other team's day, it's simply their day! Only two teams need to win in our country, and those are our Men's and Women's national teams. Soccer is a team sport that is "player" driven - once the ball starts rolling, there is nothing people outside the lines can do. Give them the game, and let them determine the outcome!

Lack of Fun (9% of Infinity Soccer voted for this as the reason)

Children view sports differently than adults. Most children, if not all, start playing a sport because it looks fun. There is a saying "Get them playing-keep them playing." Get their interest and then maintain it.

There is also a saying that "Drills destroy skills." No lines, laps or lectures. Soccer is a free flowing game where the players make decisions and decide the outcome. Instead, use training sessions that put players in an environment where they can make decisions and maximize touches on the ball.

As Director of Education traveling around the state, I am always surprised at how many coaches use the age-old practice plan starting with "laps." Coaches and adults need to know that endurance training is only effective at 12 to 18 months after PHV (Peak Height Velocity), which is about 13 years, 6 months for boys and 11 years, 6 months for girls. For the younger ages (6-10 years of age), you can work on their fitness (not just endurance) with the ball, rather than running laps.

"Teach don't talk." Our children live in a very busy world today. As a result, the ability for them to listen to coach talk has declined. Teach them in training, but make your points short and sweet. Also, include them in the process of learning by asking them questions on the topic you have for that training session.

Finally, let them play! "Over the past two decades, children have lost twelve hours of free time a week, including eight hours of unstructured play outdoor activities. The amount of time children spend in organized sports has doubled, and the number of minutes children devote to passive spectator leisure, not counting television but including sports viewing has increased fivefold from thirty minutes to over three hours," (Elkind, 1).

It is a different world we live in now. As a coach, you can give them some of that "free time" back by allowing them to play as soon as they arrive. I observed a club who does this, and their players are begging their parents to get them to training early because they know they get to play the game at the beginning. The game is the best teacher; so as a coach, allow them to play and express themselves and to have FUN!

Coaching/Adult Behaviors (27% of Infinity Soccer voted for this as the reason)

For some reason, some adults and coaches transform from Winnie the Pooh to a grizzly bear when a game rolls around. Everything from yelling at officials' bad calls to conversing with parents from the other team is widely seen throughout youth sports. Remember this - without referees, there is no game!

Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Imagine that your child (who is a new referee) is getting verbally abused by adults because a hand ball was not called during a U6 match? As a parent, you have taught your children to be respectful of their elders and to give their very best on the field. Verbal abuse of the officials on the field leads to referee loss. Did you know that nearly 75% of the referees in Indiana are under the age of 16? We must provide a tolerant, respectful, safe environment for these referees to use as a training ground, and it starts with each and every one of us. It takes a village to raise a child, whether they are players or referees.

Be a role model for your child. Try to view a game like a "grandparent." They just want to go and see their grandchild be happy. Let's take a lesson from this. They have been there, done that. Experience is a great teacher. As a parent you want to see a child's "soul" when they are out on the field and not just their face. Kids can only play freely when we, as adults, allow them to control their own destiny.

The numbers don't lie, only a small percentage of players will go on to play in college, and even fewer than that will play at the professional level. Refer back to the reason why you enrolled your child in a sport in the first place. I am sure for the majority of you; it was for one the four reasons at the beginning of this article – competence, affiliation, fitness or fun. Please remember that your child is not you! Your childhood is over - give your kids the game.

Dissatisfaction with Performance (4% of Infinity Soccer voted for this as the reason)

Stay away from "PGA" or Post Game Analysis in the minivan/SUV after the match. Coaches, stay away from the "PGA" closing statements after a tough loss. Children remember this, and feedback isn't always what they want to hear. Children know when they make a mistake in a match. Repeating it again verbally isn't the answer. Try to shift gears and turn a negative into a positive. Let it go, and make sure that they know you still love them no matter how many mistakes they make. There is a reason why the X Games are popular with children. The most prevalent is that they can determine their own outcome, be creative, and make mistakes, without anyone analyzing their performance.

Lack of Social Support (0% of Infinity Soccer voted for this as the reason)

There is "tough" love and there is "TOUGH" love. Most athletes that make it to the next level mention their parents gave them "tough" love but were supportive of them every step of the way.

This actually ties in with dissatisfaction of performance. Be there for your kids through the tough times and the good. It is easy to be supportive of them after a victory, a game winning goal or an important save. Remind your children that tough times don't usually last, but tough people do. When children feel abandoned by their parents/coaches that is when they often go to something else. Sometimes, that something else isn't a positive activity.

We all can help create a better environment to make sure that children begin playing and keep playing, staying active, keeping healthy, and making them lifelong participants in athletics.

Have Fun!

Reference:

Elkind, David, Ph.D. 2007. ""The Power Of Play: how spontaneous, imaginative activities lead to happier, healthier children"". Cambridge, MA: Da Capo Press.

Important Message From US Youth Soccer Association

Sam Snow is the Director of Coaching Education of US Youth Soccer Association. He sent our club an email requesting that we share a recently published document published by the US Youth Soccer Technical Department. In an effort to follow the guidelines and curriculum of the United States Youth Soccer Association we are posting the article, "VISION: Youth Soccer in America, How do we Measure Success?"on the front of our web site because we feel strongly that it is important that the members of Infinity Soccer understand that we are a club focused on fun and long term development. Thank you for taking the time to read this informative and important document that expresses how Infinity, as a club affiliated with US Youth Soccer, feels it is important to focus on the long term development of our children, both as players and citizens.

We hope that every adult will read this document.

Please Click Here To Read The Article

Thank you,

Infinity Soccer

Meet A Board Member

Rich Hall serves on the Infinity Board of Directors as the Vice President

By way of introduction, my name is Rich Hall, and I am originally from Lewiston Utah. I grew up working on a dairy farm, and playing sports whenever possible. My father was a high school teacher and coach, and so there were many opportunities for both the work and the play. The year that soccer started in this valley, I was on the youngest team. Although not very good, I enjoy soccer very much still to this day.

I am an Athletic Trainer by trait, and work at Logan Regional Hospital overseeing the sports medicine, physical therapy, acceleration program, and the orthopedics group. The sports medicine program involves the Athletic Trainers at Preston, Sky View, and Mountain Crest. I would guess that I see as many sporting events as almost anyone in the valley – and I love it.

Having been involved in athletics all my life, I am very excited to be on the Infinity Soccer Board of Directors. It will be a pleasure to get to know those involved, as well as be a part of a great program.

I married Melinda Hone from providence, and we have 2 children: Alexis Hall (5) and Kolbe Lloyd Hall (3 in November), and are expecting our third this spring. The photo is a little old, but only the kids have changed.

Parenting Young Athletes: The Ripken Way

Infinity Parents,

May I suggest a book for you to read. Although I am not a big reader, I was in the Atlanta airport after the NJCAA national championships waiting for the teams plane and walked in to a book store. In my previous club in Council Bluffs, Iowa I learned rather quickly how big sports are in this country. We think BYU vs Utah is a rivalry, try anyone vs. Nebraska! The entire state turns red! My point is that emphasis on sports in the mid west leave us in the shadows (this is a good thing). I do not believe that sports should be the end all be all in our lives. Nebraska football was more important than family to many people (they needed a TON of guidance)...get my drift? So I was at this bookstore and saw the title of the book, read the preface and the introduction and bought it. By the time I was back from Atlanta I had nearly finished the book (in itself was an accomplishment). Although I did not agree with everything in this book (mainly because I am soccer minded and not sports driven) I passed it along to a number of parents. Within a month the local newspaper wrote an article based on the book and nearly everyone in our soccer club had read the book. We saw an increase in parents ability to help guide their children as well as saw happier players. This book will answer many of our questions as sports parents. I highly recommend that you spend the $15 to purchase it. I believe it will help us in many ways. Below is a link to an article about the book. The article in the Iowa newspaper is archived so I cant use that one, but I found one that is similar. I hope you will read this book and that you will continue looking for ways to be the best sports parent possible.

The Book - Parenting Young Athletes: The Ripken Way
Barnes and Noble Link

Article Link

Infinity Shuts Out Inter

Infinity SC '95 Premier Boys recorded their first shutout of the season with a 4-0 blowout of Inter FC "95 Prestige. The scoring got started when Infinity was able to apply high pressure to Inter's defense and the ball was turned over to Josh Worley, who was able to capitalize with a hard shot into the far post. Ace Phillips got on the board shortly after with another great shot that hit the side netting. Eli Domery also scored a goal off a corner in the second half. Josh Worley finished off the scoring with another goal, assisted by Nate Frandsen. Infinity was able to outpass, outdefend, and outplay the opposition. The goalkeeper, Sean Lyne, was able to keep the shutout with a great save off a corner in the second half. The defense was solid, with Braden Call and Tanner Hulse leading the backs, and great defending by Bud Fowers and Blake Bolen. All in all, this was a great team win.

Special Note: The best juke of the season so far is being awarded to Alex Brown. During the Infinity vs. Arsenal game, Alex was able to pull a rainbow over his defender. Way to go, Alex!"









Pictures: First one is Eli Domery and Cole Neeves, second one is Josh Worley, and third one is Nate Frandsen

As a parent how can you responsibly connect with your childs coach?

As a Responsible Sports Parents it is important for you to be able to communicate positively with your child's coach. Working together will ensure a better sports experience for all parties. Here are 6 tools to help you communicate with your child's coach.

Recognize the Coach's Commitment
Coaches commit many, many hours of preparation beyond the hours spent at practices and games. Recognize that they do not do it for the pay! Try to remember this whenever something goes awry during the season.

Make Early, Positive Contact with the Coach
As soon as you know who your child's coach is going to be, introduce yourself, let him or her know you want to help your child have the best possible experience, and offer to assist the coach in any way you are qualified. Meeting the coach early and establishing a positive relationship will make conversation easier if a problem arises during the season.

Fill the Coach's Emotional Tank
When coaches are doing something you like, let them know about it. Coaching is a stressful job, and most coaches only hear from parents when they have a complaint. A coach with a full Emotional Tank will do a better job.

Don't Instruct During a Game or Practice
Your child is trying to concentrate amongst the chaotic action of a game and do what the coach asks. A parent yelling out instructions hardly ever helps. More often than not, it confuses the child, adds pressure and goes against the coaches' instruction, which undermines the player-coach relationship, the player-parent relationship and the parent-coach relationship.

Don't Put the Player in the Middle
When parents share their disapproval of a coach with their children, it puts the children in a bind. Divided loyalties hinder people. Conversely, when parents support a coach, it is easier for children to put forth maximum effort. If you think your child's coach is mishandling a situation well, do not tell your child. Just take it up with the coach.

Observe a "Cooling Off" Period
Wait to talk to the coach about something you are upset about for at least 24 hours. Emotions can get so hot that it's much more productive to wait a day before contacting the coach. This also gives you time to consider exactly what to say.

For more tips on communicating with your child's coach click here. Or visit ResponsibleSports.com

U12 Premier Girls To Hold Fund Raiser

The Infinity 97 Premier U12 girls team will be doing a fundraiser yard sale to help earn money for the Las Vegas Turkey Shoot Tournament in November. Please show your support and visit the yard sale and tell your friends to visit as well.

Date: Saturday, September 27th
Time: 8am-12pm
Location: In front of Hollywood Video
Address: 1467 North Main.

There will be a wide range of items from across the valley.

Giving the Eagles a Reason to Scream

""VICTORY! The Infinity SC '95 Premier Boys team pulled a late-game win out against their rivals, Screaming Eagles, on Saturday, September 20. The game started with high offensive pressure from the Screaming Eagles. Infinity was kept in the game by keeper, Sean Lyne, who had a total of 11 saves on the day, a few of which were breakaways. Infinity started to control the match partway through the first half and had some great chances on goal. They ended the first half with 8 shots. At the start of the second half, there was a mis-communication in the midfield that led to a goal by the Screaming Eagles. Infinity was able to fight back and pull a goal back with just under ten minutes remaining. The game-tying goal was scored by Tanner Hunt, who had a laser shot from about 40 yards out. Infinity was able to keep up the offensive pressure and the go-ahead goal was scored with one minute left. It was ruled an own goal, but was created out of a powerful throw-in by Ace Phillips in Infinity's offensive third. The team played with a lot of heart, and was glad to get another win against their rivals."

Pictured:
Top-U14 Boys Team
Middle-Eli Dornery
Bottom-Alex Brown

Personal & Team Development is the focus for the Infinity SC '99 Premier Girls

The Infinity SC 99 Premier Girls team continues to develop a personality and presence on the field. The team has experienced a few roster changes over the summer. As their personalities meld into one, they have enjoyed success along the way. As a team they hope to create a positive learning environment as athletes to achieve their team goals.

This summer the girls practiced with dedication twice a week throughout the summer. Coach Doney kept the practice pace, fast and focused. As well, over the summer the girls participated in weekly Technical Training with Coach Ginn. These technical drills have carried over into their own team training sessions also. The girls responded by winning the Cache Valley Cup in dramatic fashion 1-0 on PK’s. The Striker Cup tournament was a learning experience for the girls. After their success at the Cache Valley Cup they learned how to deal with adversity as they fell to some very good teams. Thanks to Coach Doney’s leadership the girls get let down on one another. They believe this is because the Infinity coaches are teaching the Soccer team to respect officials, spectators, opponents, and most importantly themselves.

As the season began hopes were high. The girls were a bit stunned as Crossfire; a team they defeated in the Cache Valley Cup started their season off by defeating them. The Infinity SC 99 Premier Girls increased their focus and began to understand more of their team responsibilities. They have reeled off a victory and a tie since then and have looked sharp in their matches.

The coaching staff and parents are very proud of the development of this team corporately as well as the individual talents of each of the girls. The team strives to give every player the confidence to make tactical decisions in game situations and through this the girls have come to understand what soccer is about and who they are through their experiences over the last few months. Finally, the players on te team take great pride in participating in fund raising activities that help to set off the cost of the season for their parents.

Here’s to Infinity Soccer!

Infinity SC 98 Select Girls Value More Than Winning

The Infinity SC 98 Select Team has come together from every corner of the valley with varied training. Under the direction of Toni Doney, the players share talent, hard work and determination to form a good team. The coaches create a positive learning environment for the athletes that encourages every player to work hard and improve, which is proving to achieve our team goals by winning games.

While winning is always fun, and a worthy goal, our coaches have also strived to instill such values as respect for officials, coaches, and other players, self-confidence, and strong work ethic. These values will continue to benefit the girls into adulthood.

The girls have learned to work as a team on and off the field. The Infinity SC 98 Select Team has had successful fundraisers to make the opportunity to play for such a great team financially possible for all families. They have also had a team slumber party hosted by Coach Doney that built friendship and trust among the girls. At each game spectators have seen examples of friendship and teamwork as the girls work together to score. At a recent game, a teammate scored couple of great goals. While having the opportunity again, she selflessly passed the ball to another player who was able to score her first goal of the season. Way to go, Infinity SC 98 Select!!!

'96 Select Girls Playing With A Positive Outlook

The Infinity SC 96 Select team hopes to create a positive learning environment for athletes to achieve their individual and team goals. One of teir most important goals is to teach the players to respect officials, spectators, opponents, and most importantly themselves.

This summer the girls practiced once a week throughout the summer. They also attended Coach Ginn’s Technical Training once a week. Coach Doney kept the practice pace, fast and focused. The girls responded by playing well in the Cache Valley Cup.

As the season began hopes were high. The girls started off the season with a 2-0 win but were a bit stunned as the SC Stangs came out strong and defeated our team 4-0. The girls are beginning to focus and work hard to realize their responsibilities of being part of a team. Over the summer we picked up a few new players and our team is beginning to gel together.

As a team we strive to give every player the confidence to make quick decisions in game situations. The girls are working hard during games and once we start to work together as a whole team unit our team will become more confident.

Let Them Dribble

It's one of the most common screams heard on the youth soccer fields of America: "Pass it! Pass it! Pass it!" Unfortunately, parents and coaches often aim their shouts at young players who are at a stage of their development when they should be encouraged to dribble. Becoming a confident dribbler is the first step to developing a comfort on the ball necessary to be a good passer and shooter. Discouraging young players from dribbling is like telling toddlers to shut up when they're learning to speak.

"This whole routine of 'pass, pass, pass' is unrealistic for the young age groups and it's been pounded into so many of our kids for so long I would argue a little that it helps explain why we lack outstanding dribblers on our national teams," says Sam Snow, U.S. Youth Soccer's Director of Coaching Education.

Former U.S. women's national team coach Tony DiCicco addresses the issue in his instructional book, "Catch Them Being Good":

"At a youth soccer game you'll probably hear parents and coaches on the sidelines yelling, 'Pass the ball! Pass the ball!' ... "When we continually tell our young players to pass the ball, we're not allowing them to develop their full potential, especially those who have the ability to take their opponents on and beat them one-on-one. As a result, we run the risk of diminishing a player's artistry and potential."

Mia Hamm credits pickup games she played with her older brother and other children as a key to her success, because, "I was able to dribble all I wanted."

Youth coaches often emphasize teamwork before children can comprehend the concept. Those who sit back and let the children explore the sport at a natural pace will usually find that the players begin to ask each other for the ball. And there are ways to create a practice environment in which all the players get a share of the ball without forcing them to pass. Small-sided games ensure that all players are close to the action. Coaches can play along in practice and aim their passes at players who haven't gotten enough touches. You can even throw an extra ball into the scrimmage. That passing is a crucial part of the game at the older age levels doesn't mean it should be demanded of young children.

"You can learn the tactical side of the game later," says Landon Donovan. "But if you don't learn at an early age to be good on the ball, then it's just useless."

The U.S. Soccer Federation's Player Development Guidelines point out that "At the younger ages (6 to about 10), soccer is not a team sport. On the contrary, it is a time for players to develop their individual relationship with the ball.

"Do not demand that the more confident players share the ball. Encourage them to be creative and go to goal. Do the same for the rest of your players."

(Mike Woitalla, the executive editor of Soccer America, coaches U-10 soccer in Oakland, Calif. He is co-author of Claudio Reyna's book, More Than Goals: The Journey from Backyard Games to World Cup Competition

'95 Premier Boys Attacking Strong

The Infinity SC '95 Premier Boys got off to a great start this season. For the first time ever, the team began with a 2-0 start. The offense was strong with 8 goals total in the first two games. Though the team didn't have the results they wanted in the next two games, they were able to get a strong win in the fifth game. The team has shown a very diverse attack with seven different goal scorers. The team leader in goals so far is Ace Phillips with 7 goals. Other goals have been scored by Josh Worley, Eli Domery, Ernie Morris, Tanner Hunt, Cole Rayfield, and Cole Neves. The team is looking great and is improving every day. Their next match is going to be on Saturday, September 20th. The boys will be playing at home at Meadow View park against their rivals, Screaming Eagles.

Go Infinity!

September Soccer Month

The United States Youth Soccer Association (USYSA) has claimed September to be youth soccer month in America. As you can see on USYSA soccer month web site, many communities do things in the month of September to represent their affiliation with USYSA. If you look close the web site even displays District 7 recreational players playing! We would like to do something as a club for youth soccer month.

Wednesday, September 17th US Youth Soccer was showcased in our community by many Infinity soccer players. Academy players Elysa & Megan Christensen (pictured with backpacks) were the first to represent the academy on "wear your jersey day" on their way to Ellis Elementary School. Messy Klein (Pictured in three photos) got caught destroying classmates at Buncerson Elementary School In Brigham City sporting her blue jersey. Six Infinity clubmates got together before school and prepared for the day by suiting up in their full uniforms. Torie Barker, Chelise Dever, Kyle McKee,Ajia Domery, and Katelyn Whipple
met up for a photo opportunity (All three pictures below) at Springcreek Elementary. The final two pictures are of Kylie Hale on her way to school.

Thanks to everyone for supporting US Youth Soccer and Infinity Soccer!

US Youth Soccer will have one final "wear your jersey day on Friday, September 26th. We hope you those of you that were wearing your jerseys this last time will do it again, provide more pictures to post and encourage all Infinity players to wear their Jerseys on the 26th!

Please support US Youth Soccer and display your affiliation with the largest youth sports association in the country.

Thoughts on Children and Soccer from Claudio Reyna, Former US Men's National Team World Cup Captain:

"For some reason, adults - some who can't even kick a ball - think it's perfectly okay to scream at children while they're playing soccer.

How normal would it seem if a mother gave a six-year-old some crayons and a coloring book and started screaming? "Use the red crayon! Stay in the lines! Don't use yellow!"

You think that child would develop a passion for drawing? Most important, parents must realize that playing sports is a way for children to express themselves."

Greg Maas Visits Logan and Infinity Soccer

Thursday,September 11th Utah Youth Soccer Association will be visiting Cache Valley. Greg Maas, the State Technical Director will be running two training sessions for teams in our club. Greg is the director of the Utah Olympic Development Program (ODP). Robson Chaves is on the ODP coaching staff and has been persistently inviting Coach Maas to our community for a few months. Coach Maas has confirmed that he will be here on September 11th. He has requested to train the Infinity U12 Premier and U11 Premier teams so he can give them a taste of what ODP training has to offer as well as get them excited to set goals to make ODP, this is also part of US Youth Soccer's 'Soccer Month'. Coach Maas generally provides a question/answer segment for players, parents and coaches, he is great with the kids and an excellent mentor for our coaches. We should all be excited to have the State Office visiting our club.

Myself, Sherri and Robson hope you will welcome Coach Maas to our community and embrace his experience and passion for the game. Please feel free to come, sit on the sidelines of training and enjoy the top coach in the state working with players from our community and club.

Thursday, September 11th
4:30pm - U12 Premier
6:00pm - U11 Premier
Topics: Speed of play and improving possession.
All sessions at Cedar Ridge (weather permitting).
If re-scheduled we are already set for the following Thursday at the same time and place TBD (Cedar Ridge might be taken by games).

A Nation of Wimps

By: Hara Estroff Marano, Psychology Today
Summary: Parents are going to ludicrous lengths to take the bumps out of life for their children. However, parental hyperconcern has the net effect of making kids more fragile; that may be why they're breaking down in record numbers.

Maybe it's the cyclist in the park, trim under his sleek metallic blue helmet, cruising along the dirt path... at three miles an hour. On his tricycle.

Or perhaps it's today's playground, all-rubber-cushioned surface where kids used to skin their knees. And... wait a minute... those aren't little kids playing. Their mommies—and especially their daddies—are in there with them, coplaying or playby-play coaching. Few take it half-easy on the perimeter benches, as parents used to do, letting the kids figure things out for themselves.

Then there are the sanitizing gels, with which over a third of parents now send their kids to school, according to a recent survey. Presumably, parents now worry that school bathrooms are not good enough for their children...Please click HERE for the entire article.

'97 Girls Win Sparta Cup

August 7th-9th, Infinity SC 97 Premier Girls went to the 27th Annual Sparta Cup. They maintained their undefeated record and brought home yet another championship trophy. It was a little tougher road this time, and they had to really work hard to achieve their victories. Their first match was against Wasatch Flash. They won 1-0, with a goal from Anna Davidson. Next was Champions FC. This time Anna had two goals, giving Infinity a 2-0 win. Their final match was against Boise Nationals. Down a goal, Anna put one in to end the game in a 1-1 tie.

They earned a spot in the semi-finals Saturday morning. They played Avalanche AO.Infinity SC 97 Premier Girls came fired up and played hard. Becca Jenson, better known as "Boo", started things off by heading in a goal. Before half, Anna Davidson and Madie Sidoway also put one in. The defense held Avalanche off until minutes before the halftime whistle, when they managed to squeak one in. After half, a temporary goalie injury and later a PK shot on Infinity, tied up the game. Both sides defended strong and fought hard. The last few minutes of the game, Becca G and Kanyan Ward scored to make it a 5-3 win.

This tough fight brought them once again to a championship game against Avalanche RD, whom Infinity conquered two weeks earlier at the LaRoca tournament. Avalanche came prepared and made it known that they didn't want to be defeated a second time. At halftime the score was still 0-0. The second half was just as tight. With no goals, the battle continued into double overtime. Adrenalin was high and both teams were still determined. Again, no goals were scored. This meant a shoot out.

Viridianna Gomez was the goalie and Becca Godfrey, Madie Sidoway, Anna Davidson, Kilee Lamb and Kanyan Ward took the kicks. It was very tense on the sidelines, as everyone watched and anticipated points. The shoot out resulted in a 4-4 tie. The battle came to a close with Sudden Death. Samantha Burton made the goal and Avalanche's player choked. Infinity went wild and once again did their victory dance on the field. Players were awarded nice medals and the team received a very large cup trophy. Infinity now goes into season play with 12 wins and 2 ties. Way to go ladies!